When life fucks you? Find a way

I’m writing this to you as the last of the delightful drug peak is wearing off 

(Thank you goat for your posthumous supply of pain relief #bestdadever) 

Today I managed to deliver – I think – a fairly useful message to the denizens of EWD about asking for help and support 

– something I have needed this week – 

It’s very easy to allow yourself to wallow when the shit hits the fan and when it does you have every right to piss and moan and whine…

…for a bit

Then you need to take actual action and find a way to solve the problems as best you can

Each and every one of our situations are different – some of us have it easy and some of have it hard, with varying levels of support and resources and opportunities 

If your life is good right now?

More power to you; make the very best of it

If you’ve a) being fucked, b) pending a fucking or c) posted fucked then it has (or will) happen

– ain’t shit you can do –

EXCEPT

Take a moment to pause – step out of the situation – and figure out a way to make it work

Thanks to a masked up covid safe meathead, I now have a desk chair with my laptop on, a fridge to the side of me and healthy food and snacks – along with the books Dex recommended me – all within arms reach + chargers/headphones/theragun all on the bed

Is this ideal?

Fuck no

But I a get a few hours a day of ‘sweet spot’ where I can write some content, go live and answer a few Q’s before my back starts to suck dick again

There’s always a way of you’re creative AND if you ASK FOR HELP

Humans are amazing – my private clients have been so kind and my team has stepped up

And the dan that comes ‘back’ #lol will have new ideas and thoughts and musings making me every better

Life can be tough at times but so are you and you can do more than you think

And if you can’t?

It’s almost as if you’re part of a really nice group on Facebook where you can ask for help?

Funny that eh…